Hoy hablamos de ADOPCIÓN

Como os explicaba el domingo pasado, esta semana tenemos en el blog a Verónica de La Opinión de Mamá. Verónica nos va a hablar de un tema muy interesante pero del que, personalmente, me gustaría escuchar hablar más: la adopción. Te dejo con la presentación y con unas preguntas muy interesantes.

Buenas, soy Verónica del blog La Opinión de Mamá. Tengo 36 años, dos hijos, estoy casada y tengo un zoo en casa entre tanta gata y tanta perra. Soy Secretaria de Dirección aunque actualmente ejerzo de CM freelance para pequeñas empresas, Gestionando la Comunicación con clientes, marketing y eventos en otra y soy Consejera Delegada de la empresa que tengo con mi marido. A parte, llevo 3 blogs (La Opinión de Mamá, Padres d1portero y Vallfoscapeques).

1. Verónica, descríbeme en tres palabras tu vida como madre.

Felicidad, estrés y alegría.

2. En esta entrevista vamos a centrarnos en un tema que interesa mucho pero del que se habla poco (a mi parecer): la adopción. Tu decidiste adoptar a un pequeño, ¿verdad? Explícanos un poco.

Sí, junto a mi marido, decidimos adoptar ya que era inviable poder tener hijos. Tras fracasar de forma natural, los tratamientos también fallaron y tomamos la decisión.

3. ¿Cómo fue el proceso de adopción? ¿Cuantos años duró?

Tengo que decir que tuvimos mucha suerte ya que nuestro proceso no fue excesivamente largo, no llegamos a los 2 años.

El proceso no fue largo como he dicho pero sí estresante ya que hay mucho papeleo que hacer, mucha incertidumbre porque no sabes cuándo te van a asignar región, cuándo tendrás al niño, cuándo viajarás…

Los meses parece que no pasan, el tiempo parece detenerse y pasar lento… Y el proceso en Rusia tiene fases muy duras como es conocer al/la pequeñín/a, volverte a la espera de juicio (y dejarle de nuevo allí), volver para el juicio, esperar unos días prudenciales…

La verdad es que es una prueba de fe, paciencia, amor de pareja…

4. ¿Psicológicamente como te enfrentas a la situación?

Es muy duro por lo comentado anteriormente y te enfrentas a ello casi sin saberlo… Te conoces más ya que te das cuenta de que tienes más paciencia de la que pensabas y te das cuenta de lo que quieres a la persona que tienes a tu lado ya que el proceso “quema” mucho.

5. ¿Tenías claro la adopción desde siempre o fue debido a algún hecho en concreto?

Nunca me lo había planteado hasta el momento de ver que no podíamos ser padres de manera natural/ “con ayuda profesional”.

6. Tienes un hijo adoptivo y una biológica. ¿Como llevan los peques esta situación?

Bien, la llevan bien… Lo curioso es que primero vino el adoptado y luego la peque… Se suponía que de forma natural no iba a venir…

7. ¿Qué les dirías a las personas que van a pasar por este proceso o están ya en este?

Les diría que nunca aminoren en ánimo, esperanza y coraje. Que se tomen muchas tazas de paciencia y que es cierto que en cuanto ves a tu peque asignad@, sabes que es TU peque.

Simplemente, quisiera añadir que quien se vea en esta situación, sea valiente y cumpla el sueño de ser padre/madre.

Que tengan claro que la adopción en su proceso no es un camino de rosas pero que es lo más bonito del mundo. Porque quizá no es hij@ de vientre pero sí de corazón y que la sangre no educa, ni cuida, sino la persona que está ahí, día a día, cuidando, enseñando, educando y queriendo.

Y sobre todo, la frase “ pobrecit@, qué suerte ha tenido”, no hace falta decirla porque realmente, la suerte es de ambas partes, una por encontrar unos padres que le adoran y otra, la de encontrar un HIJO.

De verdad que con estas entrevistas me quedo sin palabras. Me hacen pensar y sentir y son reflexiones muy íntimas (que espero compartir algún día con todas vosotras). Cada una de las entrevistas que hago me hacen darme cuenta de que todas, sin excepción, tenemos mucho que ofrecer. Verónica, muchísimas gracias por estas palabras.

La semana que viene tendremos a Keka de Mamá se escribe con K hablándonos de un tema difícil y que todas las embarazadas pasamos tarde o temprando: el posparto.

¿Que te ha parecido la entrevista de Verónica? ¿Has pasado tu también por un proceso de adopción? ¡Cuéntanos que tal te fue!

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