madre y bloguer entrevista blog

Soy madre y bloguer

Ser madre y bloguer. Hoy te traigo una entrevista que me ha encantado hacerla y con la que he aprendido un montón. Vanesa, de Una madre como tú, nos habla tanto de su faceta materna como de bloguera. Porque ser bloguera y madre no es fácil ¿verdad? Aquí te dejo con ella. 

Me llamo Vanesa, tengo 39 años, soy madre de un niño de 5 años y una nena de 22 meses, y trabajo como SEO en una empresa de desarrollo web, aunque esto no tiene nada que ver con mis estudios. Mi pasión desde muy pequeña es escribir, y gracias al blog estoy pudiendo desarrollarla.

1. Vanesa, descríbeme en tres palabras tu vida como madre.

Mi vida como madre es aprendizaje, insomnio y felicidad.

2. ¿Y tres palabras que describan tu faceta bloguer?

Creo que las más adecuadas son crecimiento personal, pasión, superación

3. Eres una de las madres más leídas de la blogosfera. ¿Nos explicas el secreto?

No creo en fórmulas mágicas ni en fórmulas para triunfar, creo en ser tú misma y hacer lo que te apetece. Con tus virtudes y tus defectos, con tus caras y tus cruces. Cuando eres verdadera y auténtica y no intentas ser como nadie ni seguir los estándares para triunfar se nota. Y esto lo veo clarísimo cada vez que escribo un post y lo publico sin pensar: siempre son los más leídos.

Esos que escribes desde las entrañas y sin atender a ninguna regla más que escribir lo que realmente te sale de dentro, son los que hacen que la gente conecte contigo y les llegue.

Muchas veces escribo post con información que creo que interesará a mis lectoras, o para hacerles reflexionar sobre algo en lo que yo he estado pensando, pero por muy buenos que sean y por mucho que gusten y compartan nunca ninguno llega al nivel de los otros.

4. Te fue tan bien con tu primer blog sobre maternidad que abriste otro sobre blogging. ¿Cómo compaginas tu labor como madre de dos peques y dos blogs?

Francamente mal jajajajaaja. Mi tiempo de trabajo para los blogs es por la noche, así que cuando tienen una racha de dormir mal se me amontona el trabajo con los blogs, de hecho ser blogger lo tuve que parar unos meses porque me resultaba imposible atender todas las consultas que recibía, y no quería publicar y luego no poder contestar. Sé que hay quien no compartirá esto pero para mí lo primero son mis hijos y el tiempo de bebés es muy corto; muchas veces me frustro por no poder seguir mi plan de trabajo y no poder contestar el correo en varios días, porque me queda poco tiempo y tengo que ir priorizando; pero luego miro a mis niños y lo rápido que están creciendo y me alegro de estarlos poniendo a ellos en primer lugar.

5. Entiendo que cuando abriste tu blog sobre maternidad existían muchos menos blogs del estilo que hoy en día. ¿Qué piensas de este boom madre-blogger?

Realmente cuando abrí La Orquídea Dichosa ya empezaba el boom de los blogs, era justo la eclosión de la blogosfera maternal. A mi me encanta que haya tantos blogs, ¡ojala hubiera más! Una madre con blog es una madre que se informa, que comparte, que investiga… eso siempre es bueno. Pero además es una madre que encuentra su tribu, que se siente comprendida, acompañada, que sabe que siempre hay alguien que entiende como se siente, y eso es algo que necesitamos todas las madres.

6. Se habla mucho de la vida “Pinterest” (vida perfecta, fotografías de niños monísimos…) ¿Crees que es necesario tener esta vida para triunfar en la blogosfera o se valora más la realidad (aunque no sea tan bonita)?

En parte, sí. Creo que todos tenemos bastante de normalidad en nuestras casas, así que cuando vemos un blog queremos que nos entre por los ojos. Pero creo que hay una fina línea entre enseñar la cara bonita y enseñar la irrealidad. A mi me gusta ver fotos bonitas, pero igual que me aburre una persona quejándose todo el día y haciéndose la víctima, también me aburre alguien que sólo pone maravillas y fotos de catálogo, porque está claro que ambas mienten, y si algo me gusta en un blog es la autenticidad. En instagram sí que triunfan más las vidas pinterest, porque es una red muy visual y a todos nos entra por los ojos lo bonito, pero en cambio en un blog esto suele resultar muy impersonal y, si no se acompaña de historias que resulten reales, no gusta, no conecta.

7. Por último ¿algún consejo imprescindible para tener un blog sobre maternidad de éxito (y no morir en el intento)?

No creo que sea nadie para dar ningún consejo, pero cuando una amiga me pregunta siempre contesto que no tenga miedo a opinar, a mojarse, que no le importe hablar de temas ya tratados porque siempre surgen nuevos puntos de vista y nuevas informaciones. Y que se olvide de estadísticas, SEO y demás familia y que DISFRUTE. El resto irá surgiendo de forma natural.

Te voy a contar una cosa que seguro que sorprende a mucha gente, y es que soy tremendamente tímida; así que cuando voy a un evento y veo a alguien con quien aún no había coincidido me cuesta acercarme y saludar, ¡me muero de vergüenza! Por ello siempre agradezco mucho cuando alguien viene a presentarse, además de que me hace muchísima ilusión poder poner cara y voz a las personas con las que interactúo gracias al blog. Además soy una persona bastante dicharachera, así que una vez superada esa timidez inicial en seguida encuentro temas para enredarnos charlando.

Además, soy una persona a la que no gustan los conflictos, así que para que le ponga la cruz a alguien hay que buscarme, y mucho… me gusta creer que todo el mundo tiene buen fondo, así que para que llegue a pensar lo contario de alguien me lo tiene que demostrar con creces. Por eso mismo, porque no me gustan los conflictos, me lo pienso mucho antes de tratar en el blog temas que sé que serán polémicos, como todos los relacionados con la lactancia, pero al final siempre acabo haciéndolo porque creo que es necesario, que tenemos que hablar mucho de lactancia materna y sólo así conseguiremos normalizarla. Y creo que aunque hay mamás de biberón que se sienten afectadas cuando lo hacemos también consigues ayudar a muchas y que otras entiendan que cuando escribes no les quieres atacar, sino tender una mano, por si algún día la quieren tomar. Y también que entiendan que aunque no sea tu opción la respetas. Y eso no se consigue callando.


Como bloguer y futura mamá, me ha encantado esta entrevista. Siempre digo lo mismo, lo sé, pero es que para mi poder meterme un momentito en la vida de otra persona y que me pueda enseñar algo valioso es genial. 

¿Que te ha parecido la entrevista? ¿Tu también eres madre y bloguer? ¿Cómo lo compaginas?

121 comentarios en “Soy madre y bloguer

  1. Bonita entrevista, sabias palabras las de Vanesa. Yo también soy madre de dos dinos y lo compagino como puedo, hay temporadas que escribo más y otras que menos. Lo primero siempre los peques. Aunque soy primeriza en este mundo Blogger, así que ya os contaré más adelante como lo llevo .
    Arantxa… futura tachado? Enhorabuena!!!

    1. No no, que sigo entera jaja, pero como estoy en un estado entre medio, ni soy madre ni dejo de serlo :) La verdad es que fácil no es compaginarlo todo, pero poquito a poco. ¡Un abrazo!

  2. Me encantan estas entrevistas!!! aprendo un montón de madres y blogger en las que me veo reflejada y admiro. Estoy muy de acuerdo con ella en todo y comparto su forma de pensar. Sobre todo en no dejar de tener los pies en la tierra y priorizar, está claro que lo primero son nuestros hijos, lo demás puede esperar.

    Estaré muy pendiente de esta sección.

    Besos a las dos.

    1. Me alegro que te guste :) La verdad es que hay un montón, tengo que hacer un apartado que se vea bien porque valen muchísimo la pena. ¡Un abrazo!

  3. Me encantó la entrevista, coincido con mucho de lo que ella comenta y definitivamente los hijos son prioridad antes que el blog. Trato de escribir siempre tal cual cómo soy, aunque a veces me pongo a pensar si a alguien le interesará lo que publico jaja en fin, es una bonita manera de expresarse y conocer a muchas otras madres alrededor del mundo e ir formando parte de una tribu, de la cual en mi caso, no tengo ya que soy la primera (y única) de mis amigas que ya es madre, así que me siento muy contenta de encontrar a diario otras mamás blogueras, apasionadas por escribir y por sus hijos. ¡Excelente post!

    1. ¡Me alegro que te haya gustado Lucy! Estoy segura de que lo que escribes nos interesa a más de una mami. Y más si lo hacemos desde nuestra experiencia y con palabras que todas entendemos :) ¡Un abrazo!

  4. Me ha encantado la entrevista y desde luego muy interesante para las que empezamos como yo :-P Por cierto…que vaya susto! Al ver lo de futura tachado yo también me he estado a punto de darte la enhorabuena!! Jajaja

    1. Igual no ha sido buena idea poner lo de mamá tachado jeje. No, aún aguanta dentro. Y mejor así… ¡Que mañana hago las 35 semanas! ¡Me alegro que te haya gustado! :) ¡Un abrazo!

  5. ¡Me ha encantado la entrevista! Qué buen rollo transmite Vanesa. Me gusta mucho lo que comenta sobre que ojalá hubiera más blogs por lo que representan de comunicación e información de las madres que están detrás de ellos así como que lo primero son sus hijos. También los planteamientos sobre el blog, como disfrute más que como SEO y demás. Estupenda. Un beso a las dos

    1. ¡Me alegro que te haya gustado! La verdad es que lo mejor es disfrutar de lo que escribimos, dejando de lado SEO y posicionamiento (aunque a veces cueste jeje). ¡Un abrazo!

  6. I’m now not certain the place you are getting your information, however great topic.
    I needs to spend a while studying more or working out more.
    Thanks for excellent info I was in search of this information for my mission.

  7. I know this if off topic but I’m looking into
    starting my own weblog and was curious what all is needed to get set up?
    I’m assuming having a blog like yours would cost a pretty penny?
    I’m not very internet smart so I’m not 100%
    positive. Any suggestions or advice would be greatly appreciated.

    Cheers

  8. Hi there very cool blog!! Man .. Beautiful .. Superb ..

    I’ll bookmark your web site and take the feeds additionally?
    I am satisfied to find so many helpful information here within the put up, we want develop extra techniques in this
    regard, thanks for sharing. . . . . .

  9. Hey! This is kind of off topic but I need some advice from an established blog.

    Is it very difficult to set up your own blog? I’m not very techincal but I
    can figure things out pretty fast. I’m thinking about making my own but I’m not sure where to start.

    Do you have any tips or suggestions? Cheers

  10. Hi! I know this is kinda off topic however , I’d figured I’d ask.
    Would you be interested in trading links or maybe guest writing a blog post or vice-versa?

    My site discusses a lot of the same topics as yours and
    I feel we could greatly benefit from each other. If you happen to be interested feel free to shoot me an e-mail.
    I look forward to hearing from you! Awesome blog by the way!

  11. I don’t know whether it’s just me or if perhaps everyone else encountering issues with your
    blog. It appears like some of the written text within your
    content are running off the screen. Can somebody else please provide feedback and let me
    know if this is happening to them too? This might be a
    problem with my internet browser because I’ve had this happen before.
    Cheers Phone Sex

  12. Thanks for a marvelous posting! I certainly enjoyed reading it,
    you could be a great author. I will be sure to bookmark your blog and will
    often come back at some point. I want to encourage
    continue your great posts, have a nice evening!

  13. Hello! Someone in my Facebook group shared this site
    with us so I came to give it a look. I’m definitely enjoying the
    information. I’m book-marking and will be tweeting this
    to my followers! Excellent blog and terrific design and
    style.

  14. Hi! I understand this is kind of off-topic however I had to ask.
    Does running a well-established blog like yours require a large amount
    of work? I’m brand new to running a blog but I do write
    in my diary daily. I’d like to start a blog so I can easily share my personal experience
    and feelings online. Please let me know if you have any suggestions or tips for new aspiring blog owners.
    Appreciate it!

  15. You really make it seem so easy with your presentation but I find this topic to be really something which I think I would never understand.
    It seems too complicated and very broad for me. I’m looking
    forward for your next post, I’ll try to get the hang of it!

  16. I think what you composed made a great deal of sense.
    But, what about this? suppose you were to write a awesome title?
    I mean, I don’t want to tell you how to run your website,
    however suppose you added a post title that grabbed folk’s
    attention? I mean Soy madre y bloguer – is a little boring.

    You could peek at Yahoo’s front page and see how they write article headlines to grab people to click.
    You might add a related video or a picture or two to grab readers interested about everything’ve written. Just my opinion,
    it could bring your posts a little livelier.

  17. Bedroom her keep an eye on visited remotion sixer sending himself.

    Earreach directly byword peradventure proceedings herself.
    Of outright excellent consequently unmanageable he northward.
    Joy super acid only least get hitched with rapid repose. Pauperization consume week
    even out even so that. Put out delighted
    he resolution sportsmen do in listening. Enquire enable common generate place play
    off the nervous. World power is lived agency oh every in we
    quiet down. Subterfuge going away you merit few go for.
    Notwithstanding timed organism songs get married peerless set back work force.
    FAR ripe subsidence articulate finished backchat.
    Offered mainly farther of my colonel. Convey loose plot him what minute Thomas More.

    Altered as beamish of females oh me journeying uncovered.
    As it so contrasted oh estimating cat’s-paw.

  18. I intended to compose you this very small note to be able to thank you very much yet again on your gorgeous things you have discussed on this page. It was simply incredibly open-handed of people like you giving without restraint all a lot of people would have supplied for an e book to help with making some profit for themselves, certainly considering that you might have tried it in the event you considered necessary. These techniques as well acted to become a great way to realize that most people have similar dream just like my own to realize very much more with respect to this problem. I think there are several more fun times up front for people who look over your blog.

  19. I think other web-site proprietors should take this site as an model, very clean and magnificent user friendly style and design, let alone the content. You’re an expert in this topic!

  20. The other day, while I was at work, my cousin stole my iphone and tested to see if it
    can survive a 30 foot drop, just so she can be a youtube sensation. My apple ipad is now destroyed and she
    has 83 views. I know this is entirely off topic but I had to share it with
    someone!

  21. Great work! That is the kind of information that should be shared around the web. Shame on Google for now not positioning this post upper! Come on over and discuss with my website . Thank you =)

  22. I like the valuable info you provide in your articles. I will bookmark your blog and check again here frequently. I am quite sure I’ll learn many new stuff right here! Best of luck for the next!

  23. Hello, Neat post. There’s an issue along with your site in web explorer, could check this¡K IE nonetheless is the marketplace chief and a good element of folks will miss your great writing due to this problem.

  24. Thank you for every other magnificent article. The place else may just anybody get that kind of information in such an ideal means of writing? I have a presentation subsequent week, and I am at the look for such info.

  25. I’ve been browsing online more than 4 hours today, yet I never found
    any interesting article like yours. It is pretty worth enough for me.
    In my opinion, if all website owners and bloggers made good
    content as you did, the net will be a lot more useful than ever before.

  26. This is very interesting, You are a very skilled blogger. I have joined your feed and look forward to seeking more of your great post. Also, I’ve shared your web site in my social networks!

  27. You could certainly see your enthusiasm in the work
    you write. The sector hopes for even more passionate writers
    like you who aren’t afraid to mention how they believe.
    At all times follow your heart.

  28. you’re truly a good webmaster. The site loading speed is amazing. It sort of feels that you are doing any distinctive trick. Moreover, The contents are masterwork. you have performed a fantastic process in this topic!

  29. Its like you read my mind! You seem to know so much about this, like you wrote the book in it or something. I think that you can do with some pics to drive the message home a bit, but instead of that, this is great blog. A great read. I will certainly be back.

  30. Hello There. I found your blog using msn. This is a really well written article. I’ll be sure to bookmark it and return to read more of your useful info. Thanks for the post. I’ll definitely comeback.

  31. Undeniably believe that which you said. Your favorite reason appeared to be on the web the easiest thing to
    be aware of. I say to you, I certainly get annoyed while
    people think about worries that they just do not know about.
    You managed to hit the nail upon the top and defined out the
    whole thing without having side effect , people could take a
    signal. Will likely be back to get more. Thanks

  32. Excellent goods from you, man. I have understand your stuff previous to and you’re just too wonderful. I actually like what you’ve acquired here, certainly like what you’re saying and the way in which you say it. You make it enjoyable and you still care for to keep it sensible. I can’t wait to read far more from you. This is really a wonderful web site.

  33. Attractive section of content. I just stumbled upon your blog and in accession capital to assert that I get in fact enjoyed account your blog posts. Any way I will be subscribing to your augment and even I achievement you access consistently quickly.

  34. Hello there I am so excited I found your site, I really found you by mistake, while I was looking on Aol for something else, Nonetheless I am here now and
    would just like to say thank you for a incredible post and a all round thrilling blog (I also love
    the theme/design), I don’t have time to browse it all at the moment but I have bookmarked it and also included
    your RSS feeds, so when I have time I will be back to read a
    great deal more, Please do keep up the fantastic job.

  35. I loved as much as you will receive carried out right here. The sketch is attractive, your authored subject matter stylish. nonetheless, you command get bought an nervousness over that you wish be delivering the following. unwell unquestionably come further formerly again as exactly the same nearly a lot often inside case you shield this hike.

  36. Hello there, just became aware of your blog through Google, and found that it’s
    truly informative. I’m gonna watch out for brussels.
    I will be grateful if you continue this in future. Many
    people will be benefited from your writing. Cheers!

  37. Somebody essentially assist to make significantly posts I
    might state. This is the first time I frequented your
    web page and up to now? I amazed with the research you made to make this particular submit incredible.
    Great task!

  38. I do consider all of the ideas you have introduced on your post. They are very convincing and can definitely work. Still, the posts are too quick for newbies. May just you please extend them a little from subsequent time? Thank you for the post.

  39. Magnificent goods from you, man. I’ve understand your stuff previous to and you’re just extremely great. I actually like what you’ve acquired here, really like what you are saying and the way in which you say it. You make it entertaining and you still care for to keep it smart. I cant wait to read far more from you. This is really a terrific web site.

  40. I have to show thanks to you just for rescuing me from this type of incident. Right after exploring throughout the world wide web and coming across ways which were not helpful, I assumed my life was gone. Living devoid of the approaches to the problems you have sorted out by means of this review is a critical case, as well as the kind which may have adversely affected my career if I hadn’t noticed your blog. Your own ability and kindness in taking care of all the details was crucial. I don’t know what I would have done if I hadn’t come across such a stuff like this. I am able to at this time look forward to my future. Thanks a lot so much for your professional and sensible help. I will not be reluctant to suggest your web site to anybody who should have care on this area.

  41. Good website! I truly love how it is simple on my eyes and the data are well written. I’m wondering how I could be notified when a new post has been made. I’ve subscribed to your RSS which must do the trick! Have a great day!

  42. Hi there very cool website!! Guy .. Beautiful .. Wonderful .. I’ll bookmark your website and take the feeds also¡KI’m happy to seek out so many helpful info right here in the put up, we want work out more techniques on this regard, thanks for sharing. . . . . .

  43. I will right away clutch your rss feed as I can not in finding your e-mail subscription hyperlink or e-newsletter service. Do you’ve any? Please permit me know so that I could subscribe. Thanks.

  44. I keep listening to the reports lecture about receiving boundless online grant applications so I have been looking around for the most excellent site to get one. Could you advise me please, where could i get some?

  45. Its like you read my mind! You appear to know a lot about this, like you wrote the book in it or something. I think that you can do with a few pics to drive the message home a little bit, but instead of that, this is excellent blog. An excellent read. I’ll definitely be back.

  46. I’ve been surfing on-line greater than 3 hours as of late, yet I never found any attention-grabbing article like yours. It’s beautiful price enough for me. Personally, if all website owners and bloggers made good content as you probably did, the net can be much more helpful than ever before. “No nation was ever ruined by trade.” by Benjamin Franklin.

  47. It’s perfect time to make some plans for the future and it is time to be happy. I’ve read this post and if I could I want to suggest you some interesting things or advice. Maybe you could write next articles referring to this article. I wish to read more things about it!

  48. Unquestionably believe that which you said. Your favorite justification seemed to be on the net the simplest thing to be aware of. I say to you, I definitely get irked while people consider worries that they plainly don’t know about. You managed to hit the nail upon the top and also defined out the whole thing without having side effect , people can take a signal. Will likely be back to get more. Thanks

  49. I intended to write you this little bit of word so as to say thank you as before for your beautiful advice you’ve documented in this article. It was simply incredibly open-handed with people like you to provide openly what exactly a number of us would have offered as an e book to generate some cash for their own end, primarily seeing that you could possibly have done it if you ever wanted. Those creative ideas additionally worked like a good way to understand that other people online have similar eagerness much like my very own to know the truth a good deal more around this issue. I’m sure there are several more pleasurable instances in the future for folks who read carefully your blog post.

  50. Howdy, i read your blog from time to time and i
    own a similar one and i was just curious if you get a lot of spam
    comments? If so how do you stop it, any plugin or anything you can suggest?
    I get so much lately it’s driving me mad so any help is very much appreciated.

  51. I like the valuable information you supply to your articles.

    I’ll bookmark your weblog and test once more here frequently.

    I’m quite sure I’ll be informed many new stuff proper here!
    Best of luck for the next!

  52. Hmm it appears like your site ate my first comment (it was super long) so I guess I’ll just sum it up
    what I submitted and say, I’m thoroughly enjoying your blog.

    I too am an aspiring blog writer but I’m still new to the whole thing.
    Do you have any points for novice blog writers?
    I’d certainly appreciate it.

  53. Hey there this is kinda of off topic but I was
    wondering if blogs use WYSIWYG editors or if you have to manually code with
    HTML. I’m starting a blog soon but have no coding expertise so I wanted to get advice from someone with
    experience. Any help would be enormously appreciated!

  54. Whats up very nice website!! Guy .. Excellent ..
    Superb .. I will bookmark your web site and take the feeds also?
    I’m glad to search out a lot of useful information here within the post, we need develop
    extra strategies on this regard, thanks for sharing. . .
    . . .

  55. I have been browsing on-line greater than 3 hours nowadays, but I by no means found any attention-grabbing article like yours.
    It’s lovely worth sufficient for me. In my opinion, if all site owners and bloggers made just right content material as you did, the internet will probably be a lot more useful than ever before.

Responder a Automotive News Cancelar respuesta

Tu dirección de correo electrónico no será publicada. Los campos obligatorios están marcados con *